From experts who’ve helped thousands with conflict

Stop Fighting About Money.

Start Connecting Through it.

Money is the #1 reason couples argue.

But those conversations don’t have to push you apart. They can bring you closer.

Stop Money Fights Now
Decode Their Words

You’re Not Fighting About Money—You’re Fighting About Being Heard.

Most financial advice skips the real issue—how hard it is to feel heard, safe, and connected during money conversations. That’s where we’re different.

Our trauma-informed conversation scripts guide you step-by-step from conflict to connection

Feel heard and understood

Learn to understand each other’s real needs beneath the dollars.

Build trust and connection

New scripts to keep conversations safe, even in tough moments.

End money fights for good

Step-by-step guides to prevent money spirals before they start.

What Real People Are Saying

“We went from dreading money talks to actually looking forward to them. The scripts made all the difference!”

— Jamie & Chris, married 6 years

“Finally, someone who gets it. These aren’t just budgeting tips—they’re relationship savers.”

— Max & Mike, married 8 years

Created by Professionals Who’ve Lived It

Sarah (Psychiatric CNP, 20+ years) and Matt (Trauma Coach, 16+ years) know how hard this can be. They navigated their own opposing money styles and developed an approach grounded in trauma-informed care and proven communication science.

Sarah, a psychiatric nurse practitioner with 20+ years experience, smiling warmly — helping couples address financial stress and improve money communication through trauma-informed care.

Sarah’s Clinical Perspective

Psychiatric CNP, 20+ years

💗 Trauma-informed financial communication
🥺 Understanding anxiety around money conversations
😬 Mental health impact of financial stress

Matt, a trauma-informed coach with 16+ years experience, smiling warmly in a casual hoodie — helping couples navigate difficult money conversations with safety and clarity.

Matt’s Safety-First Approach

Trauma Coach, 16+ years

🕊️ De-escalation techniques for heated conversations
🤝 Building emotional safety in vulnerable discussions
🔑 Empowerment-based financial communication

What They Really Mean: The Money Talk Decoder

Use this simple tool to translate everyday money frustrations
into deeper connection — one conversation at a time.

What your partner may really be saying:

How to respond with empathy:

Bridge phrase to try:

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How We Help

We focus on communication — because without it, no spreadsheet can save you.

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Conversation Guides

Step-by-step tools to navigate money talks without shutting down or escalating.

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Weekly Insights

Real-world insights and trauma-informed tools — delivered straight to your inbox.

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Trauma-Informed Support

Safe, shame-free approaches that honor your history and build trust.

Wondering If This Will Help?

You’re not alone. Here are some of the most common questions couples ask us when they first find this site.

Yes. We specialize in helping couples who’ve struggled with money conflicts for months — or even decades.

Our tools work even if only one partner starts the change. You can begin improving the tone of your money talks today.

No. Many couples begin with very different money styles. These tools help you start healthier conversations — even if you’re not aligned (yet).

That’s okay! Our focus is communication first — not budgeting apps or spreadsheets — so this works even if you’ve tried other systems.

No. Any committed partnership can benefit — whether dating, living together, married, or in a second marriage.

Get In Touch

Connect

sarah@nomoremoneyfights.com
matt@nomoremoneyfights.com

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